OK, I’ve gotten on board with the whole new text era. Initially, I did not understand why people texted. I witnessed many young people’s fingers frantically flying across doll-house sized key pads and thought: Why? Why not use the same cell phone and call the person? Like, why not just have a real conversation?
Then, I started texting. I get it now! Texting is convenient when a phone call is impractical. You can text anytime – day or middle of the night, not so with a phone call. Texting is a great way to send a quick message without having an extended phone conversation. And, for whatever cheap thrill I derive, it’s just fun. Texting is like getting a cool letter in the mail, or an anticipated email or post on facebook.
Now, the bad side. Texting, while fun, can be hazardous to relationships. Because there is a LOT of room for misinterpretation. Subtle nuances don’t come across clearly. Typos and abbreviations can lead to general confusion for the recipient. While texting is fun and sometimes necessary, it can create more communication problems.
I totally agree – sort of like email in the work setting. There can be so much room for misterpretation. I love to text though, especially to my husband. But I definitely try not to leave any room for misunderstanding with him.
Glad you’re back – I’ve missed your posts!
Sometimes I really love texting but I think it really puts a cramp in communication between people, and communication is difficult enough without having this device that allows you to put up a barrier and stay “safe”. I have an older step daughter that has always hated talking on the phone. I can call her cell and she won’t answer, but immediately text “What’s up?” It makes me crazy! Or like when my husband is particularily cranky and texts an apology. I appreciate the apology, but would rather he pick up the phone and call. But I love it when I’m watching a basketball game and my friend in another state or across the country is watching the same game and we text about what we are watching. Or when someone far away texts and asks to set up a time to talk later in the day when both of us are available. In those situations, I love texting.