The woman from TX left a vm and said my advice worked….phew! I love it when that happens! She was frustrated, confused and hurt when her new romantic interest put the brakes on and said, “We’re going to be OK, but I need to take things more slowly.” That’s always an ouch. She wanted to […]
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Children & Lying
A concerned mom emails Zanny. Mom asks advice regarding her 13 year-old daughter who recently has begun to lie – even about silly things. Mom isn’t usually punitive but wants this behavior to stop. What should she do? Is it a phase, or something more serious? Listen to find out! Talk To Me! Call me […]
Pet Loss – Grief
A caller asks: My dog, Molly, died of cancer several months ago, we were constant companions. I still miss her. My friends and some family members think I’m silly. Am I normal to still feel so sad? Answer: Yes! Pet loss hurts. We become so attached to our beloved animals – regardless what species it […]
Difficult Step Children
A listener is in a new marriage – a second one. Her new step daughter is difficult and sulky. This is a classic “pursuer-distancer” (or “cat and mouse game”) relationship dynamic. The one person pursues while the other RUNS! Guess who has the power? Answer: The one doing the running. Avoid this common dynamic by […]
Sexual Harrassement – In the Office
A caller asks: My boss is hitting on me – and I’m not interested! He doesn’t seem to hear me. I really love my job – but this is really stressing me out! HELP! Listen on how to protect yourself and your career … Talk To Me! Call me at 678-884-0524. Email me: Zanny@DearZanny.com. Do […]
One Up-manship – Mine’s bigger
A listener writes about her sister who constantly competes and engages in 1-Up-manship. This type of interaction can occur with anyone. How can you handle this without feeling deflated and defensive? It’s easy – and after you’ve done it you will walk away smiling – and so will the other person! Do it with style […]