Dear Zanny: So I woke up at 6:30 this morning to find my husband at the kitchen table already working. It is rare for him to be up this early, and even rarer for him to be working so soon, so I asked him what’s up. He says he’s been up since 5 AM because […]
Relationships
Constellation of the Animus/Anima
Swiss psychiatrist, C.G. Jung, talked extensively about the projection of one’s anima/animus – our inner opposite gender. When we meet our animus (the inner male for women) or anima (inner female for men) – it’s instant kinetic attraction. My God, you will feel it like a tsunami. You will find yourself fantasizing about them in every […]
To Know All is to Understand All
“To know all, is to understand all.” That’s a Zanny-ism. A Zanny-ism is an original quote by me. They may not be brilliant, but they will be practical and applicable to most people. So, one thing I know for sure is: when you know all the pieces of information, everything else makes sense. It all fits together. […]
Do You Tell Your Friend about Their Kid’s High Risk Behaviors?
Marion from WI left a vm. Marion was told by a trusted friend that another friend’s kid is involved in high risk behaviors. What should she do? If you want to listen to my podcast, click to the left of this screen and play. Dear Marion: 1) Ask yourself what is your goal? Once you […]
Addicted to a Lover
My God – the ecstasy and agony of love. Have you ever been addicted to a lover? How do you know? Have you ever felt your knees shake, your heart race, tongue-tied, or faint at the sight of them? Have you broken up and gotten back together – over and over again? If you can answer […]
Shannan’s Marital Issues
Listener email: Dear Zanny – I have listened since almost day one to the Divas and was so glad to hear you are doing this show… I value your advice! My background is a Bachelor of Science in Family Relations and Child Development. I worked counseling parents of disabled or delayed children birth to three […]